The special gift of women is to have “orisirisi” on their minds and yet get things done. The gift of multitasking eludes most men. You are alright. It is because I have done the “DJ phase”, that I can now focus. If I didn’t go through that phase, I would probably have felt that something was missing. Because I have been there, hustling is no longer a virtue to me. Focus is hard but the rewards are amazing.