It is now obvious where the name “FatherMerry” comes from. I have a friend we call “Emperor Jolly”, also known as the “Emperor of Jollof”. He has the same principle about letting bad shit not get to him. I admit that I sometimes react to bad shit instead of letting it just go myself but I don’t give it a second thought after my reaction. Better than bottling it up.
One’s state of mind is very important to productivity. As for me, I create a stressless environment around myself. I definitely can understand the feeling of people thinking you have much more than you are actually worth because of that.